Going to court... eeewwwww

UGH!!! I just got off the phone with Roro... and I was in such a good mood. He had his preliminary hearing with Sandy this morning, who downright stuttered over his box of receipts... :o) They have 30 days to work out a visitation/custody agreement, and then they go back to court and the judge will determine child support and/or custody if they haven't worked something out. In this 30 days Roro wants me to file against him for child support... {picture me stomping, kicking pulling hair, gnashing teeth. I do not want to go to court - DCSE does not live in my house and I don't want it involved in my life! We are all adults, dammit!} He also wants to Halle and Brianna's visitation with him to coincide so that they can be together as well. I told him that I think as long as he wants their visitations to be together, that is a conversation the three of us should have together. He agreed but said not now... I am sure that Sandy is pissed. The advisor told her that it would be in her best interest to work something out with Roro because the judge will not give her sole custody, that sole custody is usually only given when the parent is delinquent (a drunk, drug addict, abusive, etc). So he'll get joint, and she won't be able to cut Bri's hair, pierce her ears, move, change her phone number, without letting him know and getting his agreement. I doubt she's in the mood to discuss anything. Hopefully she'll CHILL THE F#CK OUT before this 30 days is up. Baby momma drama, y'all!

Weekend alone...

I went out Friday night (part of my efforts to move on). I had fun, was on pins & needles waiting for Roro to show up at the club but he didn't. I met a guy, Mark, who was very nice, gave me his phone number (and didn't ask for mine, 10 points, buddy!) and didn't grope me on the dance floor. Tree was there, however (Roro's BF) and I am surprised that he hasn't told Roro he saw me, and even more surprised that if he did, Roro hasn't said anything to me. And except for calling me Thursday wanting tickets, he hasn't called at any inappropriate times. Of course, I find it interesting that since I told him to leave me alone and that he needs to spend time w/Halle on his own he hasn't been by to pick her up. Saturday afternoon when he finally got in touch with me he wanted to know where we'd been, that he had wanted to come get her. Of course, he never called my cell phone, it just so happens I was two miles away from his house at the Chinese Cultural Festival and could have easily dropped her off. Same thing Sunday, he called in the afternoon while she was napping. He needs to get it through his head that he can't just wing through anymore. He needs to make reservations. Our time is valuable.